The Best Gift

When you ask yourself about what is the best you can do to help many others, when you ask yourself about what is the best you can do to help your loved ones, or your neighbor, or friend, what is the answer ? 

We generally have two answers to this question, whether we try to help the whole humanity or one single individual. These answers are not always completely revealed and clear to us. 

The first is that we must do something which makes other people, or friends or relatives, feel better. We definitely want them to feel better, because we interiorly know that to feel better is the way to start any kind of improvement. 

The second is generally confused within the first answer, and not very clear to be identified. But it is there. We must do something that makes US feel better. Just for the same reason. To get any improvement in any situation we must feel well. We must feel the feeling of wellness. What we want for others is what we first must have to be able to generate any kind of improvement.

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For this reason, it can sound strange and selfish, but is not: the best gift you can give to people, is your wellness, your being well, your feeling good. 

Just try to imagine. You wake up and feel good, look in the mirror and see a smiling face. Have a good breakfast. The walk to work will be easier and nice. You meet people and—since you feel good—you easily smile to them. Simply because you feel good. 

We often say a smile can change a life. IT CAN. Because it is an expansion of that wellness you have inside. It’s a share point of what you have done to be comfortable and happy with yourself. It comes from your positive transformation and it is the reflection of the wonderful human being which is inside you. 

You expand your wellbeing and others will feel the feeling, they will smile in turn and a wave of better feeling will be easily created. And like a wave it will go from people to people, and really will reach the whole humanity. Just starting from yourself.

I Worth It

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Many times in life we do not 100% believe we will receive something. Actually we often start to say “I feel it, I will get it very soon” and then nothing happen.

Why? One of the first reasons is that because we do not have it 100%.

Yesterday I was talking with my niece. She is struggling with her job, she feels having little perspectives, and is a lot uncomfortable with that. While she daily tries to get rid of that feeling. But, nothing happens.

I explained to her my idea about this, trying to make her clear it was simply a matter of attitude. She said to me “I know, auntie; I start positive each single day. BUT I already know my effort will be useless. My boss will certainly obstacle my initiatives. Well, why should that be allowed to one like me?”

The point was there. The very starting point. My niece was saying to herself, first the right thing to do, to start positive, with ideas and initiative. And immediately her second step was to create the stop with the sentence “my boss will certainly obstacle my initiatives”. She already knew to be stopped. And the Law of Attraction was calling that stop to her. The Universe does not know if you want or if you do not want something. It reacts to the inner power of your consciousness, which was—in that case– saying “my boss will stop me”. But worse, my niece was adding something to that stop. She was justifying herself from not getting her success, because she was not worth it: “Why should that be allowed to one like me?”

Here is a mistake many of us are repeating and repeating, to become an habit. We think we do not worth it. We do not realize that when we ask, we express our divinity. We ask simply because we know, in the deep part of ourselves, that we deserve what we ask for. We can have it. It is due because of our status of divine being, made to be abundant of everything we think to be present in our life.

Therefore, we should start to think that we are also so important to the Universe, that we worth receiving what we asked for. Never give the Universe the possibility to cancel your effort, by affirming the idea you will not receive what you ask for.

Why should your boss, or your parents, or your mate allow you to make something, have something, do something? Simply because of your right to it, you express to the Universe with your asking for it.

Ask and it is given

Where does the magic start?  Is there actually any magic? The answer is Yes and No.
Everyone understand things in its own exclusive unique way. This makes difficult to transfer something which is basically the same for everyone, but different for each one of us.
Fundamentally, it may appear to be magic when you so strongly desire something that it appears in your life out of the blue. It actually isn't that way.
It magically appears, but it is not magic. The way to get "the magic"  is the change we can make to look at things.
Since there is only a general rule, which is also difficult to understand, I will progressively bring you through some information, or issues to medidate about, to help you to find your way.
I can fist say that if you are reading this, it means you are looking for something. Should it be for yourself or for your friends and family, it doesn't matter.
Stop to resist to the change which is just in front of you. This first step will help you to make your next step and the progress of your life will become more and more evident, the more steps you do.
Using the words of Abraham Hicks, "you ask through your attention, through your wanting, through your desire". This basically means that when we desire something there are two way of reacting: one is looking at your desire as something far, unaccessible, too far away from you. But if you start to think to your desire with the feeling of pleasure it brings to you, placing your attention and observing how happy you are when you simply think to that desire, there is something happening. You change your way of feeling, and appreciate your desire which is near, you feel it, it is someway real in your thoughts and wanting. This progressively creates in you and near you the conditions and events happen to bring your desire into your reality.
Nothing magic. Simply a different way to look at it. There is no effort. Only joy. And patience. Give the time to things to happen, and then allow them to happen. Do not make any resistance. Ask and it is given. Really very very simple!

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